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MAX KLEIN BIBLE MINISTRIES

Joseph, a man of great integrity

Written by: Max Klein

The Virgin Conception of Mary and Joseph's reaction:

 

In this passage, Mary becomes pregnant apart from Joseph after being legally married to him via the contract signed by his and her parents. This was why Joseph was so concerned when he had discovered that she was pregnant. Since he knew that he did not bring about her pregnancy, he initially assumed that she had committed adultery. After he was informed in a dream by an angel of the Lord regarding the truth of this matter, he went ahead with the ceremonial phase of the marriage (Matthew 1:20).

 

Matthew 1:19. Joseph, her husband, being virtuous [a righteousness related to grace] did not desire to make a public display of her. He desired secretly to divorce her. 

 

Joseph was not only moral, but also possessed the virtue acquired from the spiritual life.  Morality was designed for the security, stability, protection and blessing of a group of people in a national entity and as such requires only human power and determination for execution. Virtue, on the other hand, relates to the inward function of the soul and comprises attributes such as grace-orientation, love for God the Father, unconditional love directed toward members of the human race and occupation with Christ.

 

Morality without virtue can very easily be corrupted (distorted) by arrogance resulting in a moral, but weak person. Morality combined with arrogance produces great self-righteousness. A self-righteous individual assumes that his morality equals perfection. From his imagined perch of perfection he evaluates, criticizes, judges, and maligns others.  However, he is far from perfection. He understands neither God nor God’s plan; he understands neither himself nor the people whom he judges and maligns.

 

Believers and to some extent unbelievers can avoid this “moral degeneracy” related to the distortion of morality. With authority orientation and humility, moral unbelievers who possess some appreciation of grace can avoid much of the stench of self-righteousness.  The believer, on the other hand, can go much further, for through the execution of the spiritual life he is able to remove self-righteousness and develop great virtue.

 

Joseph possessed and demonstrated this virtue obtained from the spiritual life. He didn’t get angry at Mary when he first discovered she was pregnant. He didn’t malign her. He didn’t call her “a dirty and faithless adulteress” as other men, facing a similar situation would have. He didn’t feel sorry for himself and say, “How could she do this to me?”  He didn’t become bitter and demand that she be stoned to death under the requirements of the Mosaic Law, which stated that adultery was not only a sin, but also a crime:

 

Deuteronomy 22:23-24). If there is a virgin, betrothed [contractually married] to a man, and another man finds her in the city and lies with her, then you shall bring them both out to the gate of that city and you shall stone them to death.  The girl because she did not cry out in the city [she consented], and the man because he has violated his neighbor’s wife.  Thus, you shall purge the evil [adultery is more than a sin, a sin related to evil] from among you.

   

Because Joseph was a man of great humility, he did not feel any personal disgrace in this matter.  On the contrary, he was only concerned about Mary’s feelings and security. He wanted to protect her from disgrace and personal harm.  Therefore, he decided not to bring her before the Jewish court system, but to divorce her secretly.  In a state of great humility and objectivity, he was able to apply grace toward his wife and so was able to avoid any subjective reaction.

 

Remember that God always treats us in grace.  So, we should treat others in grace as well. You may say, “My friends do not deserve to be forgiven.”  Did we deserve salvation?  Did we deserve to be forgiven of our pre-salvation-sins by God the Father (Isaiah 44:22; Ephesians 4:32)?  Do we deserve this spiritual life given to all church age believers?  First Corinthians 4:7 states, “What do you have that you did not receive?” 

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