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MAX KLEIN BIBLE MINISTRIES

Jewish Marriage

Written by: Max Klein

Jewish marriage took place in three stages namely, the contract, the ceremony, and the celebration.  In the first stage, the marriage contract was signed by the parents of the groom and bride.  After the contract had been signed and registered with the Jewish government, the couple was legally married, even though the ceremony and celebration may not take place for many months or even years. In the second stage of marriage, the ceremony, the groom, and his male friends would ride their chariots to the home of the bride’s parents (or some other designated place), and then the groom only would enter the home while his friends waited outside.  At that point, there would be four people in the home for this ceremony namely the bride, her parents, and the groom.  Something similar to the following scenario would take place: the bride would be positioned a couple of paces ahead of her parents. When the groom entered the room, the father would step forward beside his daughter and make the following announcement to her as he pointed to the young man, “This is your husband and has been your husband since the date of the contract.” Next, he would say to the groom, “This is your wife.” Then, the father, taking the bride by the arm, walked forward and presented her to the groom. The groom then looked at the bride, but said nothing, then looked at the father and said, “She is now my wife, and I am her husband now and forever more.”  (It is interesting to note that only the father and the groom spoke during the wedding ceremony.) The groom then took the bride’s fingers and put them into the crook of his arm and they walked out together. He put her in his chariot and his friends followed in a procession through town.  He would then go either to a home which he had prepared or to his parent’s home.  Waiting outside the home would be the bride’s friends, the bridesmaids who would be holding lanterns and waiting for the returning groom, bride and groomsmen (compare with the marriage feast at the 2nd Advent: Matt. 25:1-13).  The groom and bride would enter the home first followed by the groomsmen and lastly the bridesmaids.  Then, there would be a wedding dinner and celebration which would last from several days to several weeks. At some point during the celebration, the couple would slip away and begin their honeymoon and consummate the marriage. (Please listen to Spiritual Dynamic Series 631 by R.B. Thieme Jr. regarding this subject.) 

 

Relating Jewish Marriage to the Church:

 

Contract stage: When a person in the Church Age believes in the Lord Jesus Christ as his savior, the Church Age believer is contractually married to Jesus Christ as her new husband.

 

Romans 6:5. For if we have become united with Him [Christ, the new husband] in the likeness of His death [the substitutionary spiritual death of Christ on the cross], and we have, and not only this, but also, we shall be [united in the likeness] of His resurrection [Current Positional Truth: in union with the resurrected Christ].

 

Ceremonial stage: At the Rapture of the Church, the Church Age believer is caught up into the clouds to meet the Lord and so shall she be with Him forever is analogous to the ceremonial stage.

 

1 Thessalonians 4:16-17. Because the Lord Himself will descend from heaven with a command [will give a command through Gabriel], with the voice of the archangel [for mortality, those alive at the Rapture in mortal bodies to take-on immortality] and with the trumpet of God [the Father’s trumpet command for corruption, those in interim bodies of corruption to take-on incorruption], in fact, the dead in Christ will rise first [in their resurrection bodies]. (17) Then, we [Paul identifies himself with those who will be alive at the Rapture] who are alive and remain will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air, and so we shall always be with the Lord.

 

Celebration stage: At the 2nd Advent, there will be a wedding feast in which a great celebration takes place.

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Revelation 19:7-8. Let us rejoice and celebrate [be exceedingly happy at the marriage feast] and give the glory to Him [by Church Age believers] because the marriage-supper [already legally married when the contract was signed at salvation] of the Lamb has come [follows the coronation] and his bride [the Church] has prepared herself [having received her resurrection body minus the sin nature]. (8) Furthermore, it was given to her to clothe herself in fine linen [the resurrection body], shining [the resurrection body may be constructed out of something similar to light] and pure [unblemished: no sin nature, no sin, no human good] for the fine linen is the fulfillment of justification [the imputed righteousness of the Church age believers parlayed into their resurrection bodies: ultimate sanctification] of the saints.

 

Consummation stage: The honeymoon will last for the thousand years reign of Jesus Christ.

 

All four stages are based on Jesus Christ’s victory on the cross. At His Session, God the Father gave Jesus Christ a royal family namely the Church Age believer to compliment his new title, “King over Kings and Lord over Lords” which title will become functional at the 2nd Advent.

 

1 Timothy 6:13-15. I charge you in the presence of God who gives life to all things [God gives life to all at birth] and of Christ Jesus who testifies a good witness before Pontius Pilate (14) that you keep the commandment without spot or reproach until the appearing of our Lord Jesus Christ [Rapture]. (15) Which [resurrection] he will bring about at the proper time.  He who is the blessed and only Sovereign, the King over Kings and Lord over Lords, who alone possesses immortality [began with His receiving a resurrection body] and dwells in unapproachable light [the only ones who will see him are believers after they die and enter into His presence] or can see him, to Him be honor and eternal power, Amen.

 

Jesus Christ will be glorified especially by the mature believers whom He can bless with their eternal Escrow Blessings as per Revelation 2-3. Remember that the recipients of blessing receive some glory, but the greatest glory goes to the giver.

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